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 This is the man.
If he wants you, you can ask him to do. He do not want you if you die for him he thought you extra.
Patient and read on, girls need to know the unspoken rules of Love , well because the environment for the growth hormone secretion way of thinking and different, love, boys and girls do have many different psychological, those who love little tricks, in fact, has demonstrated a love for the boys.
NO.1 boys do not love, as long as understand; girls not to know, as long as love.
find a 100% love you and you love him 50% of the boys love. save 50% of the energy that can be used to read 100% of the boys love you. Frankly speaking, boys are used to understand, not for love. machismo attack him, you know his face; he is weak, you are pulling his hand. do not want to take the time to understand him, just hundred percent love him, to see those girls in TV drama in the end it, the movie follow her boyfriend, her boyfriend was the last to play Miller's less than love to keep a little distance, so full of sympathy and affection boys do nothing said to himself: . and I do not love you, you just need to know so that we can live in harmony, what they need.
NO.2 boys is the function of the product to solve the problem, not to listen.
you tell him today trouble, he started also to listen carefully and tell you a solution, you are forever go on, he looks less and less seriously, so you are very angry, how to find a man so do not care about their Friends do?
In fact, you are wrong, boys and girls fundamentally different way of thinking, problems and stress, solution-oriented boys and girls to talk to the people-oriented, he proposed a solution is his affection the way the. task is completed, you continue to say, he will think you are not satisfied with his proposal, he did not help you, and he began to doubt my ability, so began to weary, but why do you think he does not care about you, Then you start to quarrel.
encounter problems, ask boys how to do, need to listen to find girls. like a vacuum cleaner, you can not use it fishing, wrong product features, is your problem.
NO. 3 If he looks not like you, that really do not love you.
boys bully you, the biggest reason is because he does not like you. He does not look warm, it is because he does not love you.
first date for dinner, he proposed the AA system; further contact, he said, not tonight I'll call you; He said that I later about you, but did not give specific dates for a date; He said he not now looking for his girlfriend, in fact, say that you're not looking for his girlfriend; He said he was very busy, and even drink a glass of fruit juice of the time are not, in fact, is that you are not worthy of his time with out a glass of juice. You give He did not call to find a number of reasons, suspect lost his phone, the bad, and suspect that he did not signal to travel to the cave, but in fact is kidding himself. In short, he is not so fond of you.
NO.4 Do not blame him for every game very seriously.
boys always put her in a competitive environment, the typical is the drive on the road to go his way honestly, never run a red light is a certain girl an opportunity to overtake must be male. girls to drive themselves to the destination safe, driving men to start with those and their own behind the car knocking.
same also play computer games . psychologists result of the survey, boys to girls in the five requirements are: 1. sex; 2. looks attractive; 3. the worship of feeling; 4. can play to go; 5. on their own career help. If he likes a game, you do not blame him too much input, but try to behave in high spirits, he will put you into the play to go to the category, your favor of doubling.
NO.5 love you boys play in front of you silent, do not love you the boys did not even give you silence.
think if he loved his girls, to be distributed minutes of the expression and passion, can not figure out the time together how could he reticent, playing silence it. boys fall in love silence for two reasons: 1. they are born like this, with you, they occasionally wander, remember there is no love solitude and calm when He felt a close relationship with you for a long time, so that he could not find himself, so he wants to be alone for a while .2. He was in trouble, there is a need to resolve things, which he licked the wound, a reserve force deal with the problem , when he found the way out on their own.
at this time not to disturb him, not noisy and you do not speak to me does not love me is not the holder of a class, find something you like to do things to do done on the line. generally 20 minutes to 1 hour, he began to miss his side's sweet you take the initiative out. boys do not love you, runaway, and even the chance to face his silence is not for you.
NO.6 never talks to find men, not two people love each other, we can talk about to understand.
want to know two people who obviously love how the collapse, according to the, to see the movie Scarlett O'Hara and Rhett Butler's look at some arguments to understand the negotiations never find boys boys and girls in different languages planet, especially in the simmering air when two people simply do not know about. you here today, I have just one particular sad, he one
Do blame me? do not blame you blame? may have had fights worse hh.
NO.7 unless he is blind, or be forever are visual animals.
for various motivation, perhaps to get you, perhaps because the low self-esteem, fear of their power over a woman too beautiful, or that he genuinely in love with your mind pure and beautiful, maybe he will claim that he does not value on appearance, you will always be the most beautiful The. pack of lies! blind man unless otherwise always love beautiful women, walking down the street he will definitely not buy food to see Aunt beautiful long legs. If you give up the pursuit of beauty, then the man will give up the pursuit of love. is so cruel, even if the sage is the same. then again, was the United States and the United States itself and shift, and there is no loss to you is not?
NO.8 no man want to get married, he just did not want to marry you.
men did not want marriage, because men, married and a set of established system of social identity, the desire for social animals, men, never problems. So, if you and a man entered the stage of marriage, and he has been reluctant to stand, do not suspect anything wrong. The problem in him. that man does not want to marry you, but never admit it. As one of the reasons mmm, not responsible. he would say, my dear, we do not like the do together, why care about the paper? In fact, he's most concerned about the paper, and because of the paper, he must payment from the family responsibilities, as well as the responsibility of both families, he would not. Second, he did not want to lose the whole forest. If a man marry you today, then tomorrow go to work, he lost liberties with female colleagues in the new position, he would not. Third, the most important thing is that he not love you. Do not say you and him in a year, how long you live together with him, a break up, he can get married in six months, than those previously He married legs more than an excuse for rejecting all gone. So do not tangle where his bad faith are not even married men, we also learn smart, play even if the.
NO.9 to the bad opportunities equal to suicidal man.
some things can be forgiven, foot odor, cooking, put more salt, forget to buy you a gift. but some things can not be forgiven. deliberately derailed again, ignore your feelings and trample on your self-esteem . again and again the opportunity to bad men, only to enlarge their appetite. a man shamelessly hurt you, let him roll. Then, to make room worthy of your love. a woman a lifetime, they will be silly for a back, But the silly after a good, you learn smart, smart people will appreciate you, love you.
NO.10 old flame just a packet of instant noodles.
he made the most conducive to his choice not you, you think of his meaning, has become a packet of instant noodles. If you wanted to, he was hungry one day, a bubble you, eat, look to solve the problem, you are the one-off garbage, he will not nostalgia. Do not fantasy again, the attitude of love, not everyone is as noble as you. If it does not fit, not as good as this as a perfect opportunity to own. allow yourself to become more perfect. You can write, where you do not good, so he does not love you, and then to improve them. For example, Tuicu, ok, go to the gym, to practice Pilates, six months later, when you have the perfect sexy legs, you will forget the original intention of their fitness, by the way also be his countenance completely forget.
find a 100% love you and you love him 50% of the boys love. save 50% of the energy that can be used to read love you 100% of the boys.
EQ determine a woman's life !!!!< br> EQ allows women to their potential on its head, serving professionals in themselves, and working together is so smooth. EQ make women more attractive, more feminine, and other social people to maintain a higher level of integration. EQ women to get Tianmi love. perfect marriage, so that women live more mature, more elegant and refined. Why have the same beautiful face, her high spirits She has the spirit of Weidun; Why in the same workplace environment, her themselves, she was frustrated everywhere; Why have the same good husband, her happiness, she was full of complaints; Why face the same plight, she is full of courage, she grudges, especially in people; Why have the same academic intelligence, her meteoric rise, she moves in situ.
1 EQ woman decided to put aside a lifetime of happiness
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EQ EQ is a very popular nowadays words, then in the end do what is EQ? Let us put aside the veil of emotional intelligence. look at emotional intelligence of the mass.
1990, the United States, two psychologists called Peter. Lale Wei, called John. Meyer, who proposed the psychologists in recent years with the intelligence and intelligence made the corresponding concept. It mainly refers to people in the mood, emotion, frustration tolerance and other aspects of quality. including the inhibition of impulses, delay of gratification of the restraint. and how to adjust their emotions, how to put yourself in others shoes and feel the feelings of the ability of other people. and how to establish good relationships, develop self-motivated for the simple mind power hh, EQ is emotional management of self and emotional management of others ability index.
But now many people's understanding of emotional intelligence is also not comprehensive enough, or there are still some errors, such as some people believe that ; Some people think that manage emotions.
everyone has emotions, feelings, if the fluctuations with the situation accordingly, it is normal and humane. If the mood is too extreme or prolonged continuous rigid, and you can not grasp the way of regulating emotions, easily be mood. emotional person, not only cause can not be successful, even a normal life and work may also be affected.
who are good at high EQ control their emotions, feelings can inhibit the impulse and restraint urgent desire, resolve, and eliminate negative emotions, so that their will always maintain a good state of mind. For example, a person suffering from a lovelorn hit, if she emotionally intelligent, she will choose sensible ways, control their emotions, himself out of grief as soon as possible to restore normalcy. and a low EQ person will take things too hard, to make any impulse we might have things to extremes.
second. correct understanding of self.
a person there Some could not see even their own personality on the blind spot, a high emotional intelligence are often self-reflection, from a different perspective to know and understand yourself, to yourself. Therefore, such people never insolent pride, generally with people around to get along. A woman with high emotional intelligence will be very clear to see their strengths and weaknesses, both will be proud because they look beautiful, but also will not regard himself as a man in self-esteem.
Third, self-motivated.
to do everything with high emotional intelligence are the driving force from within, have a strong awareness, and initiative. determined to do something afterwards, did not complete is not willing to give up the. do anything are highly motivated, interested in a strong, independent positive and not far behind, and have the courage, confidence strong. So, people with high emotional intelligence know how a spontaneous, automatic work, automatic learning, automatic work, so, even if his IQ is higher than others , but it can certainly make achievements.
Fourth, positive and optimistic attitude.
Most things in life, ten regular eighty-nine. has always been a woman of low EQ negative, pessimistic, and high EQ woman a positive and optimistic attitude. they will the good things and the surrounding natural landscape and feel pleasure, for example, Hanbaoyufang flowers, fresh air after the rain, and that sort of little things.
their own ideas and good conversations that lead to exciting, and inspiring the concept of children up. they can quickly resolve the problem, the negative aspects of the environment, compressed to a minimum. and trying to find something positive
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they have experienced events always give positive comments, and always passionately talked about his time with the people to live together. angry or unhappy, it hands to reverse the situation, know how to be happy is their responsibility. They also believe that the past is a repository of information for reference, but the future is a happy, promising infinite, fascinating paradise.
women love to use such high EQ some words: excellent, good, warm, and important, I like exciting and wonderful, and so on. high EQ woman knows optimistic to maintain a positive attitude is the key to winning the struggle. the same thing, often may be as harmonious.
high EQ are good insight and understanding of other people's mentality, able to control their emotions, put yourself in others shoes, and understand each other's feelings and respect the opinions of others. Therefore, they are good at interpersonal communication and cooperation, interpersonal harmony, in a complex interpersonal environment to navigate.
that we can see from the above, EQ is a good moral character, is self-motivation is sustained toughness, compassion and concern for others is good, is good with people, to grasp the ability to own and others emotions and so on. In short, it is human emotion and social skills, is everything other than intellectual factors.
to a comprehensive understanding of emotional intelligence, there is also a need to understand a concept, that is, of providers. of Commerce (sex quotient), referred to as the SQ. is not only pure physical indicators, including sexual health, physiological capacity, psychological adjustment, and other aspects of the ability to interact.
to the concept of business itself, may be a new thing, but the content they cover, it has been long present in a variety of sexual cultures, ideas and knowledge in.
Confucius said: . the meaning of taboo. But in fact, for a person, in addition to IQ, EQ is important in addition, can not be denied is that business as a person of important physiological quality. but plays an essential role, and sometimes plays about IQ, EQ effect, and thus directly determine the success or failure of human life.
in terms of a man. sex is representative of his ability, and if lost it, he will become inferior, and even metamorphosis. Sina has such a message: Kang, who lives in Heilongjiang because of his long treatment of sexual dysfunction have abnormal psychology, karaoke bars in Beijing will be an escort for a lady killed, stuffed with the human tragedy the next.
course. of Business is not only significant for men, a woman is equally important. Both men and women, sexual function is missing or not met to make their lives will become tarnished, resulting in abnormal and twisted mind to do harm to the family and society .
the general sense of the people, it seems that there is no IQ and EQ of important business, and in fact, its role can not be ignored. For example, we know better A couple of mental and physical health of the lubricant of life is a woman, not only reduce the pressure of women living and working in, but also make her look the air is crisp, energetic, efficient doubling. Conversely, the absence of a woman A love of harmony, the more will become grumpy, worried all day, encounter a little problem, it is easy to slump.
present, the issue of women's sexual psychology focused on two aspects: one is more conservative sexual attitudes; second sex. the two are complementary, because there is no sex science and health awareness, we can not fully enjoy sexual pleasure; Since no fun to live in terms of sex, marital discord naturally, over time, marriage will turn red.
For me, like vitamins or coffee, a necessity. I've been confused by do a miserable job. But to go to bed with her husband to do A love, let me happy to no one, such as the environment, also an article a few days trying to come up, stroke of a pen San Liangxia're done. I think that love is happy to bring the views of A outside
harvest. role. but also in modern education, psychology, sociology, physical medicine among the latest research that. as intelligence quotient and intelligence quotient of the occurrence of power and maturity, congenital and acquired factors that account for 50%. But a considerable extent, the performance IQ and EQ quotient to be affected by sexual power.
of the business is actually a form of emotional intelligence, intelligence is innate. has not changed, but the nature of business is to rely on acquired training. female sexual and male business primarily in the practice of exchanges and moving gradually improved, the improvement of business women and men are also more conducive to the smooth communication and interaction between, and the achievement of gender harmony, so that men and women Flirt double to achieve the other side of the main.
emotional intelligence, a key factor in happiness
woman summed up the decision was a happy woman's life four factors, namely, love, marriage, career and life skills in intelligence, which aspects of emotional intelligence are just playing a crucial role in the.
First, a highly intelligent woman can excel at work, but not necessarily to have a sweet love, because she often seeking only love him, not even His appearance did not see, and later married, only to find he did not bring their own well-being of men. and in the time they get along as they are often aloof from the lack of guest, the measure, but not the interpersonal skills, gradually to will lose its charm.
woman and a high emotional intelligence, it is wise, she not only identify the man's eye has a double, one RBI, and love will be a . For example, she will be just the right tenderness and jealousy, that his love and attention; she timely use of willful coquetry, to increase the love of the sake of discussion, know how to Happiness?
Secondly, home life, marriage is a woman, the feelings of home. but a woman who is not high emotional intelligence, often confused war home stretch will not only tension-law, is intimate with their husband who is also start to get cold. So, we can often hear them complain that: right or wrong, but if we look at a woman with high emotional intelligence is how to run a marriage, you'll understand why they can have a happy family. EQ understand the operation of high marriage as a woman running a business, it needs careful. They not only support her husband's career, even if they are professional women in their daily lives but also take care of him. a little iron, a skilled cook hh is more important is that they never complained, not nag, do not get angry, they conquest of man's weapon is not compulsory and discipline, but the warmth, love and tolerance. the most difficult relationship between mother and daughter. In their view, could not be easier, just love her and care about her, not her as an enemy . will be able to win her heart. In short, they waved a high EQ This is the root
magic wand, to a home business was happy: her husband happy. kids happy, satisfied with her mother, sister son praised hh no reason not to like being a woman !
Moreover, women with high EQ tend to work quite well, although she did not formed an inherent charm. They won the affinity of the trust of subordinates, making a strong sense of team is more willing to collaborate with colleagues, humbler attitude to the leaders to win the cooing. EQ women are often not high not aware of this, they will think we now have division
, and each of their tasks on the line, so indifferent to their sense of cooperation, lack of team cohesion. and they often go its own way, never mind know how to take care of colleagues and face, the natural friction and contradictions are inevitable, which is bound to affect the normal work. In addition, women with low EQ will not properly handle the relationship between male colleagues and supervisors, the result to the adverse impact on their own.
Finally, we talked about earlier, a woman with high emotional intelligence is an important feature of social ability, outgoing and happy, not easy to fall into fear or sadness. That is, women with high emotional intelligence can be social in themselves, and their understanding, not only Women are generally very bad relationships because they do not understand speaking skills and strategies, so they do not have any friends, the Central Standing Committee felt emptiness and loneliness of life, natural feel happy.
this conclusion, not a woman Who Happiness? is a woman myself, is a woman of low emotional intelligence. who can make a woman alive and happy again? is also a woman myself, is a woman of high emotional intelligence. In a word, is the emotional intelligence determines the happiness of a woman's life.
only have women with high emotional intelligence will understand that their happiness does not depend on men, but depends on the sweetness of love and happy family. only a woman with a high emotional intelligence to understand a woman's happiness does not come from any person compassion and grace, but is closely related to and harmonious interpersonal relationships.
why the lucky always lucky, unfortunately, always the unfortunately most people tend to think of a woman comes down to luck and misfortune is their good luck or bad In fact, in many cases, women are dependent on luck and misfortune of their emotional intelligence. So why the low EQ unfortunate women, and high EQ but a woman is lucky it?
let us look at a test:
1960, the famous psychologist, Walter. Michelle (Walter Misehe) for some 4-year-olds conducted an experiment, his children into a shabby furnished room, and then each made a a very attractive candy and told them: I came back after eating, I will then give you a reward, that is, a total of two can eat candy. lack of control children, unable to withstand the temptation of sugar and sweet, the sugar eaten. and some children understand the teacher's request, try to make their own persevered to get the two sugars. Later, Walter. Michel asked the The children get two candy how persevered, and some children say head on arm, close your eyes, do not watch the attractive candy; some said made myself fall asleep, so forget the presence of gums.
also rely on the child himself, singing and playing with her hands and feet, to distract yourself.
Michel This is the famous candy test, of course, test does not end there. psychologists continue to participate in this experiment tracked the children until they graduated from high school. follow-up study revealed: those who can wait and the last two candy children eat, at a young age , still waiting for the opportunity and not anxious, they have a further goal for the greater expense of immediate temporary capacity, that is, self-control. And those who wait to eat candy a child, the young adolescence, the performance was stubborn, vain, or indecision, when the desire arise, can not control themselves, must immediately satisfy the desire, otherwise we can not stop and continue to do things behind.
in the past that a person can No success in life, and intelligence is of first importance, namely, the higher the IQ, the greater the likelihood of success. But now psychologists have generally agreed that the emotional intelligence level of success a person has a major influence, and sometimes even more than its role in intelligence.
by Michelle's candy test, we can easily see that the children eager to eat a candy low EQ, and those subjected to tempted to get a higher EQ two children candy. Facts have proved that the latter is more easily achieved success in life.
while a woman, a successful career is not just the results, but also the success of marriage the family's success. The success of any of the road will not be flat, so bear during the setback is particularly important.
women with low emotional intelligence mainly as a lack of theoretical understanding, the will is not strong, difficult to control emotions often easier to complain and impulsive. as a negative and pessimistic person. and the high emotional intelligence are, by contrast, the reason why they are more likely to succeed. is that they will always be confident, be able to open the psychological impact of receiving a variety of emotions, with strong emotional capacity, and through the appropriate channels to overcome the problems caused by negative emotions, and always maintain the spirit of optimism, life is full of hope and
confidence, courage and patience in order to conquer a life Another difficulties and obstacles, off the aura of happiness.
due to his father's influence as a sports coach. childhood Deng Yaping to germination of their extraordinary dreams. that is to be a very outstanding player of table tennis! so. She very much like to have the chance to enter the sports school, however, small body small Deng Yaping, does not meet the requirements of sports schools, sports schools and closed the door on Deng Yaping.
However, Deng has not complained about his misfortune, but did not give up their dreams. Her father was a sports coach, Deng can not step from the door of the school from the body, Deng's father, a voluntary act on her complete sports training program.
educated by his father, Deng recognized, to become an excellent athlete. we must make some hard work, otherwise it daydreaming! her father had finished a day in addition to the courses specified , but also insists on being a hundred actions serve the ball. Although Deng was only seven years old, but his game in order to enable more sophisticated, more solid basic skills, in their delicate legs tied the sandbags! This is a little girl. not only make great bodily suffering, but also bear the psychological pressure
unspeakable. little her, every flash, development, Teng, moved a step, can be said to be difficult ! little, she always show her stubborn and unyielding personality, never say bitter, do not cry tired!
It is hard in such a temper in the extraordinary, Deng Yaping's Table Tennis laid a very solid foundation and formed its own is grassland, backhand strange characteristics of the individual combat skills.
is the case, Deng Yaping moving steadily, irresistibly ascended the throne on top of table tennis, the achievements of the brilliant achievements attracting worldwide attention.
1989 In th World Table Tennis Championships in the fourth, and Deng Yaping won the women's doubles title.
1991 in the forty-first World Table Tennis Championships, she successfully won the women's singles title.
1992 twenty-fifth Olympic Games. Yaping perfect performance on her own wonderful, superb solid foundation and comprehensive technical and tactical proficiency. for a person by the table tennis women's singles, women's doubles gold medals.
who can not easily determine whether the ugly duckling into a beautiful swan. like Deng Yaping Thus, despite his small stature. Who can stop her becoming one of the lucky table tennis giants it? behind only the more fortunate is difficult. is not throwing in the towel, the spirit of fearing neither hardship.
all women there may be a congenital defect such as mm far from being handsome, tall and low, and so on, the face of these congenital defects, if you willing Jour, you the gifted had a companion with Jour. But you once the strong positive mind and positive action to pull remarkable rise themselves, so that those birth defects, it may be forging their own magic to make you!
looking woman with high emotional intelligence the long term. do not care about immediate benefits. they want to question, to do things, thought, plan ahead, so they are often lucky. The woman is quick success with low emotional intelligence, short-sighted, to meet the immediate gains and losses, can not resist the temptation, vulnerable social adaptability , which is destined that they would be unfortunate.
woman's personality traits of low EQ and high EQ
than women. EQ low number of women often fall into the trap errors in without knowing it. This will not only damage the ability of a woman doing things to combat her self-confidence self-esteem, and would deprive her joy of life and the happiness of life.
is not possible to measure emotional intelligence, but through observation and analysis, we conclude that some characteristics of women with low emotional intelligence, specifically eight point, you were about to see his body is also the performance of these low EQ.
First, the decision to feel things, that by doing things good or bad.
low emotional intelligence in the mood to wait for a woman accustomed to waiting for a good mood after work, patience and mood to work either. they think. how is it possible to do without a good mood ...